by Joel Wallis | Jun 24, 2026 | Mental Health Education, Men’s Mental Health
One of the questions I find myself asking men in therapy is surprisingly simple: “Who do you talk to when you’re struggling?” The answer is often some version of: “Nobody.” Or maybe: “My wife.” And while there’s nothing wrong with talking to your spouse, what I often...
by Joel Wallis | Feb 12, 2026 | Communication & Conflict, Couples & Marriage Counseling, Personal Growth & Healing
“I just need to trust them again.” It’s a phrase I hear often in therapy, especially when working with couples. And it’s usually followed by a pause. When I gently ask, “What would that look like?” the answer is rarely clear. Trust is foundational in relationships....
by Joel Wallis | Jan 7, 2026 | Mental Health Education, Personal Growth & Healing, Self-Esteem & Confidence
How “Self-Improvement” Can Quietly Turn Into Self-Rejection Many people come into therapy saying they want to work on themselves. They want to grow, feel better, and change patterns that no longer serve them. On the surface, that sounds healthy. But for many people,...
by Joel Wallis | Jan 2, 2026 | Individual Therapy, Mental Health Education, Personal Growth & Healing
In Part 1, we explored the emotional pressure many people feel at the start of the New Year. In this post, we’ll look at what’s happening in the body and nervous system during winter and why your lack of motivation right now may actually be wisdom, not failure. From...
by Joel Wallis | Dec 31, 2025 | Individual Therapy, Mental Health Education, Personal Growth & Healing
As the New Year approaches, there’s a familiar shift that happens for many people. Calendars reset. Conversations turn toward goals and resolutions. Social media fills with plans for change, discipline, and becoming a better version of yourself. For some, that feels...
